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Signer_FullName: Toni Putnick
Remote Name: 66.234.229.227
Date: February 01, 2006
Time: 12:13 PM

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My heart goes out to you and your family, I too have lost my mother at the hands of a murderer. I will keep you all in my prayers.


Signer_FullName: Abby Labus
Remote Name: 152.163.101.14
Date: December 13, 2005
Time: 11:39 PM

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I knew Chris when he was starting to get into trouble. I worked at Paramdale back in 1997 (?) and Chris was in my cottage. If I only knew what he would "grow up" to be.... well. I am curious what happened at the trial. Email me please Abbyhammer@aol.com. I am sorry for your loss.


Signer_FullName: Monica Tarango
Remote Name: 4.240.132.34
Date: September 19, 2005
Time: 04:36 PM

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I am sorry that you lost your mom. My mom was murdered March 18, 2005. I wanted to know after so many years does it get easier and do you have any advice that will help during the hard times. Monica Tarango


Signer_FullName: Cindy James
Remote Name: 159.212.71.77
Date: August 14, 2005
Time: 11:29 AM

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Signer_FullName: Sherrlyn Davis
Remote Name: 66.25.255.98
Date: July 17, 2005
Time: 12:42 AM

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My prayers are with the family and friends of Sandy. God keep your hands upon this family and these friends that they find peace and comfort with you. I know all to well the emptiness that you feel, as I lost my husband of 16 yrs, and the father of our 2 precious children to murder. I couldn't even imagine it being one of my family members. My prayers and my heart goes out to you. Rest In Peace Sandy


Signer_FullName: Floyd Meck
Remote Name: 71.29.118.56
Date: June 13, 2005
Time: 09:58 PM

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Hello Kelly, I frequently think about the serious loss that has been inflicted upon your family. It is a very serious tragedy that no family should ever experience. I can personally speak on what wonderful individuals all of you are. the last time I saw Jay was at the funeral and I hope that you and your family are healing from your loss. My prayers will always be with you. When you speak to Jay, please let him know I visited this site. Floyd Meck


Signer_FullName: Melinda Williams
Remote Name: 152.163.101.14
Date: June 10, 2005
Time: 11:56 PM

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I'm so sorry to hear about your mother...My thoughts and prayers are with you for what you are about to face with everything else involved.


Signer_FullName: cathy
Remote Name: 69.160.158.13
Date: May 16, 2005
Time: 12:26 AM

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God bless you and your family, the hurt of losing a loved one to violence is unbearable. I lost my 22yr.old son to murder also, the coward who killed my son was a police officer. The shooting was NOT justified, but yet his killer walks free because he wore a uniform. NO JUSTICE! Cathy


Signer_FullName: Cara Barkes
Remote Name: 68.22.243.178
Date: December 16, 2004
Time: 05:30 PM

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I'm really sorry he made a dumb choice.


Signer_FullName: Claudia Murcia
Remote Name: 208.147.48.73
Date: December 07, 2004
Time: 06:32 PM

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Signer_FullName: MaureenRossi
Remote Name: 205.188.116.202
Date: November 23, 2004
Time: 07:01 PM

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I was looking at my own mothers page and then came upon yours. My mother was also murdered, but it remains unsolved. I don't know if I really want to know who did it after reading yours. You can visit my moms. Her name is OLGA PARLANTE unsolved murder. So sweetie I and my family KNOW what you and your family are going thru. All I can say is let GOD do the judging and we need to keep our faith. Because without faith imagine what this world would be like. There's a lot of things in life that we question and have no answers for and probably never will. That is until we too earn our way to heaven. God says never question any thing he does. I'm not religious by far, but I'm really started to think about it. I want to see my deceased ones again. There's nothing I can tell you that will ease the pain. Time doesn't even heal this kind of pain. My prayers are with you and yours as I'm sure yours are with ours. Our deceased ones are probably looking down on us saying well find out sooner then we think that the eternal life for all of us is a blink of an eye away. I'm sure that's true too. Life here on earth is just toooooooo short not to think there isn't eternal life waiting for us. You and yours take care. We'll all be seeing each other one day in a much happier environment. If its to any comfort I cry everyday for my mom. I got to where I don't trust any human. I know that's not a good way to live. But the PR who took our mother away from us also took part of our lives. Feel free to email me any time if you want to talk. We have a lot in common. Always MAUREEN ROSSI


Signer_FullName: Grewal
Remote Name: 65.92.104.239
Date: September 28, 2004
Time: 06:46 PM

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She was there for you and you were their for her but one day or another, god will and did separate you guys. She may not be there physically, but she is living in your heart.


Signer_FullName: Kristie
Remote Name: 24.107.242.76
Date: May 16, 2004
Time: 11:50 PM

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I am very interested in knowing more about this story and seeing pictures of your family. Please email me it's very important. Thanks Kristie


Signer_FullName: Kristie
Remote Name: 24.107.242.76
Date: May 16, 2004
Time: 11:27 PM

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I was just curious as to what the outcome of this story was and where you guys are from?? if you could email me i would greatly appreciate it. Thanks Kristie


Signer_FullName: Karen Foser
Remote Name: 195.92.168.178
Date: February 21, 2004
Time: 01:44 PM

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I am glad that you and your mother became such good friends after a time of misunderstanding. Please write an update so we know that justice has been done. You are much braver than you think and my heart goes out to you all.


Signer_FullName: Barbara
Remote Name: 24.218.121.235
Date: November 11, 2003
Time: 03:11 PM

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I believe it was said by Robert Frost that "home is the place that, when you go there, they have to take you in." What a cruel lesson it is that sometimes, our lives are ended by the people closest to us.


Signer_FullName: Brigitta Szocs
Remote Name: 147.226.5.3
Date: November 03, 2003
Time: 06:38 PM

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God bless you all!! Many are praying for you including myself.


Signer_FullName: Brenda
Remote Name: 65.102.0.36
Date: September 05, 2003
Time: 05:50 PM

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Kelley, This is such a heart-wrenching story. Please post an update on the trial.


Signer_FullName: Elizabeth Block
Remote Name: 205.188.209.144
Date: April 26, 2003
Time: 09:52 PM

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I'm so sorry about your loss. My dad died when I was 17 years old and that was hard on my family and me. It must be real hard to take, for you and your family that another person took Sandy away from you. I hope that whoever did this to you gets punished. God Bless you


Signer_FullName: Val Morgan
Remote Name: 12.215.181.106
Date: March 09, 2003
Time: 02:18 PM

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So sorry for your loss. God bless.


Signer_FullName: crystal hawkins
Remote Name: 64.12.103.38
Date: February 07, 2003
Time: 10:47 AM

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i am so sorry for your loss god bless you all.


Signer_FullName: Laura Girod
Remote Name: 204.196.220.192
Date: October 28, 2002
Time: 10:09 AM

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I would like to let you know I am an attending student at LSUA, for criminal justice. One day I will be the person out in the world making sure that the people who commit horrible crimes are brought to justice.

 
Signer_FullName: Jenn
Remote Name: 163.41.248.252
Date: May 31, 2002
Time: 04:38 PM

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Hi my name is jenn and i am doing a slideshow/essay on the death penalty trying to show all views! I would really appreciate it if there is anyway that you can share your story and your feelings and information on the death penalty with me so that i can get the point across to all of my fellow peers!

My greatest regards, Jenn

Babyfacedreamer@aol.com please write me back!


Signer_FullName: Sharon Yarbrough
Remote Name: 66.76.177.253
Date: May 22, 2002
Time: 11:45 PM

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I am very sorry for your loss. It sounds as if your mom was one great person. I realize that your loss is not only your mother but also, now, your brother. How sad to lose two family members in such a horrible way. One by murder and (possibly), one by conviction and Death Penalty. I, too, have lost a very dear family member to murder! My aunt, an 82 year old, saint. She was the exemplification of the perfect Christian I will ever meet on earth. She was in her own home getting ready to go to daily (8a.m.) Mass at St. Rita Catholic Church. She went to this Mass everyday, including Saturday. Then her regular Sunday Mass. She evidently was having her morning coffee and a piece of toast when something went terrible wrong in her daily routine. Somehow, a GANG of no less than NINE males in their early to late teens, got into her home and beat, stomped, and stabbed her to death. They then stuffed her into her own closet and put a heavy chest of drawers in front of the closet door. Had it not been for my mom (this was my dad's sister....He died just a few months before her murder) not seeing her at Mass that morning we may not have known of her death for a day or so. My went to check on her since she wasn't at church. She found things didn't seem right and called for me to come over there right away. This was October 24, 1994. My aunt would have celebrated her 83 birthday one week from the day she was murdered (October 31). Yes, Halloween. She used to love that holiday.... She would dress up as witch to pass out goodies to the kids. We always went to her house first to Trick-or-Treat (and to bring her some silly something we had made her for her birthday). She always made a big fuss over any little thing we gave her. I hope you will be able to see an end to trials and appeals soon. We have just finished up the last trial in my aunt's murder. It has taken this long to get the nine through the court system. 2 are on death row in Louisiana State Prison waiting for appeals. They can't find attorney's to represent them. One has passed up 3 execution dates already because of lack of attorney to try his appeal. The other one on death row has not been provided with an attorney either. 3 got life in prison without parole (one was too young at the time of the murder to receive the death penalty) One confessed and turned states evidence and testified against the others. He got a very short sentence of 15 years.... with good time, time served while waiting trial, etc. he is already back on the street. The others are serving 15 years.

God bless you and help you through your trying times. Remember, you are not alone, there are many of us out here who have lost loved ones to murder. Sharon


Signer_FullName: janine   Bramley
Remote Name: 203.19.222.2
Date: May 02, 2002
Time: 11:02 AM

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I JUST WANT YOU TO KNOW THAT MY THOUGHTS ARE WITH YOU ALL. MY MOTHER WAS MURDERED OCTOBER 2000. TO HAVE SOMEONE MURDERED IS THE MOST EVIL THING, NO WORDS CAN DESCRIBE IT, BUT TO KNOW THE PERSON WHO MURDERED YOUR LOVED ONE, IS THE ULTIMATE ACT OF BETRAYAL, FOR ME I CAN'T GET PAST THE BETRAYAL. SANDY SOUNDS LIKE A CARING, LOVING MUM, A BEAUTIFUL HUMAN BEING. I WILL NOT FORGET YOU.


Signer_FullName: GEORGIANN PEER
Remote Name: 64.12.102.171
Date: December 23, 2001
Time: 03:33 PM

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I'm so sorry for the loss you and your family has experienced. With the grace of GOD the people who hurt your family member will suffer in this life along with the after life. It is such a tragedy that our world has such monsters that could destroy lives in only seconds. I'm truly sorry for you loss and hope that if the murder hasn't been solved yet that one day it will. As I'm writing this to you my thoughts and wishes are with your family. It also brings tears to my eyes and pain into my heart that anyone has to experience such a loss. MAY GOD BE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY!!!!!! The only thing that I could think of to say which I hope makes you feel better is that he or she is in heaven with God now. Everyone who is in heaven is in a better place than we are.

Sincerely, Georgiann Peer


Signer_FullName: ADAM FARIAS JR.
Remote Name: 64.12.104.43
Date: November 22, 2001
Time: 02:44 PM

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NICE WEB PAGE FOR SANDY - SHE WILL ALWAYS BE REMEMBERED!


Signer_FullName: Dora DuShane
Remote Name: 206.77.183.31
Date: November 19, 2001
Time: 09:24 AM

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Sandy, What a heart-wrenching story. Its a sign of the times. Jesus said that in the last days "critical times hard to deal with will be here, and that children would be disobedient to parents, and that "no natural affection" would be prevalent. (2 Timothy 3:1-5) May Jehovah give you strength to carry on. Jehovah's Witnesses can give you comforting scriptures concerning the resurrection. I'm sure they come by your home occasionally. A Texas J.W.


Signer_FullName:
Remote Name: 64.156.79.18
Date: November 14, 2001
Time: 11:12 PM

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October 30, 2000 was one of the best days of my life. My daughter Erica was born this day and we were all so happy. To know now that at that very time, your family was having to experience the worst thing possible is so sad. God was watching over your Mother then and now she and God are watching over her family together. Bless you and your family.


Signer_FullName: Judy Bennett
Remote Name: 64.12.105.58
Date: November 04, 2001
Time: 05:11 PM

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I am so sorry for your loss.


Signer_FullName: Alicia
Remote Name: 198.81.16.186
Date: October 26, 2001
Time: 10:47 PM

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I am so sorry for your loss. I think your loss is as great as mine. I struggle and stumble through life by a thread. My 19 year old daughter Michelle was murdered by her boyfriend in 94 - people went in and told police this but did not want to get involved so they call it ''TALKING OFF THE RECORD'' and some where in the warped Justice system they made this o.k. It's been 7 years and her body's never been found and this beast walks free. There is nothing worst than MURDER GRIEF - it is a life altering event that I as well would not wish on anybody and I hope someday you will be at peace Alicia


Signer_FullName: Harry Hartman
Remote Name: 208.8.140.208
Date: October 25, 2001
Time: 11:16 PM

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As a survivor and a former drug and alcohol counselor I feel your pain. I`m not making excuses for anybody, but, drugs killed your loving mother. It destroyed Chris, also. The person who sold or gave Chris his first dope should be on trial with him. They are more guilty than him. Be strong!


Signer_FullName: Tiayana Ford
Remote Name: 64.5.147.99
Date: October 25, 2001
Time:
07:09 AM

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OF COURSE YOU KNOW THAT I READ YOUR PAGE, I JUST FELT LIKE WRITING TO TELL YOU THAT I AM REALLY SORRY FOR WHAT HAPPENED TO YOUR MOTHER. BUT I AM GUESSING THAT YOU HEAR THAT ALL THE TIME. I JUST WANTED TO SAY THAT I SYMPATHIZE.


Signer_FullName: efarlough
Remote Name: 63.52.63.91
Date: October 23, 2001
Time: 06:22 PM

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I'm so sorry for your loss ,your mother sounds like a very special lady ,I'm sure she's sleeping in a pile of love in heaven and she'll live on in your heart forever I'll keep you and your family in my prayers. May God Bless you - Donald's Mom, Ernestine


Signer_FullName: Carrie- Bill's Sister
Remote Name: 128.220.137.97
Date: October 22, 2001
Time: 11:28 AM

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My brother was killed by a childhood friend. We knew he was a trouble maker, but never dreamed he was murderer. I can surely understand how your mother's murder at the hands of her own son blind-sided all of you.

Please don't feel like you should have prove that your mother was a good mother just because her own son killed her. The stigma is on your brother's hands, not your mother's or your families. Your love for her that you have expressed here tells so much about your mother. You have honored her well.

I know the anniversary of her murder is coming up. May God send you blessings and strength to get through all that is ahead.

Take Care, Carrie


Signer_FullName: Val Morgan
Date: October 20, 2001
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I am so sorry for your loss. My little girl wants me to tell you she is praying for you. She knows what it's like to lose a parent. May God bless you and your family always.


Signer_FullName: James M. Weir
Date:
Thursday, February 01, 2001

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Signer_FullName: Christopher Kevin George
Date: Wednesday, January 31, 2001

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I pray that some day you will be able to forgive Chris; not for his sake, but for yours. May God bless you and your family.


Signer_FullName: Rodney Williams
Date: Saturday, January 27, 2001

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Mrs. Power left me two of the most precious gifts anyone could have, my son Rayvon, who comes from a beautiful seed which was planted by Mrs. Power. Kelley has been very strong and brave. I will continue to support Kelley and Rayvon as I made a promise to her mom some 3 years ago, and that's a promise I plan to keep.


Signer_FullName: Jamie M Mettler
Date: Saturday, January 27, 2001

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you are missed.


Signer_FullName: Nancy Mettler
Date: Saturday, January 27, 2001

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Kelley, God loves you, more than you can imagine. I'll be here for you. 


Signer_FullName: Charlene
Date: Friday, January 26, 2001

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I am very sorry about this tragedy that has enveloped your family. I am sure your mother is with you, helping you still.

 

 






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