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Signer_FullName: Jim's family
Remote Name: 64.12.116.74
Date: 04/13/2010

Comments

Today James would be celebrating his 45th birthday. How sad that he only had 33 years with us. Forever missed and forever loved.


Signer_FullName: mg
Remote Name: 12.53.40.130
Date: 05/28/2008

Comments

i need help writing a victims statement my email is magy_galvez@yahoo.com


Signer_FullName: delmas melton
Remote Name: 75.117.222.138
Date: 04/11/2008

Comments

my heart and my prayers go out to you and your family. I was searching the net for a old shipmate jim connor from lpd 12 when I found your son . my friend has a son about the same age. may the Lord grant you peace and ease your heart.


Signer_FullName: Jim's mom
Remote Name: 64.12.117.80
Date: 04/04/2008

Comments

Grace - I would need your email to help you write a statement. have you looked at murdervictims.com? My thoughts and prayers are with you.


Signer_FullName: Jim's Mom
Remote Name: 64.12.117.80
Date: 04/04/2008

Comments

Grace - if you can post an email, I'll try helping you with a victim's statement. It is a difficult task - My son has been gone 9 1/2 years and would have been 43 April 13. I still miss him so.


Signer_FullName: kecharb.net
Remote Name: 216.55.194.202
Date: 03/29/2008

Comments

help me to write a victim statemny


Signer_FullName: grace
Remote Name: 216.55.194.202
Date: 03/29/2008

Comments

write a letter as a victim - my son was murdered


Signer_FullName: P. Nichols
Remote Name: 152.17.114.230
Date: 03/18/2008

Comments

Law Student reading case


Signer_FullName: Padraic Kiernan
Remote Name: 78.16.182.53
Date: 02/12/2008

Comments

Your story greatly moved me. May God grant you peace. You obviously raised your son with love and respect and I hope that is a consolation to you.


Signer_FullName: brandie
Remote Name: 75.86.245.16
Date: 12/14/2007

Comments

i'm sorry for your loss...how heartbreaking. hope you have a happy holiday.


Signer_FullName: Carla
Remote Name: 74.130.108.14
Date: 11/01/2007

Comments

Hello, Sorry to hear of your loss. I lost a daughter and a brother. And I know how wondering what, why, who etc goes. My heart goes out to your family. I came across this page doing a search, for a story I seen on T.V. There was a Pychic Rosemarie Kerr that helped with the case. Not sure I have the right story here. However if I do, I hope you can maybe help my family. We are searching for answers as to what happened to my brother. His death case was re-opened, but that's about all they have done. We need any help we can get from an officer, attorney, or psychic. Anyone that can help us at all. My brother's case was handled very poorly. Many things just not done or missed etc. If you can help or anyone out there that can , please email me at beautycr75@yahoo.com Thank You, Carla


Signer_FullName: Leana Jo Hover
Remote Name: 207.200.116.72
Date: 09/22/2007

Comments

I'm very sorry for what happened to your son. Do they have any idea who might have done this?? I pray to God that they do find this person and bring them to justice. God bless you and your family. Love, Leana Jo


Signer_FullName: Amy Allegood (kaiti1992@yahoo.com)
Remote Name: 71.29.136.1
Date: 09/14/2007

Comments

I came across your victims statement and it touched me. I am so very sorry for your loss. I work in law enforcement so I see awful things everyday, there are some good. Again I am sorry for your loss of your son and his faithful companion Doc.


Signer_FullName: JIM CONNOR
Remote Name: 68.213.121.77
Date: 09/06/2007

Comments

I CAME ACROSS YOUR STORY WHILE I WAS GOOGLING MY NAME AND AM VERY SORRY TO READ OF YOUR HEARTBREAK. MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.


Signer_FullName: JAMES MICHAEL CONNOR
Remote Name: 81.99.219.226
Date: 07/10/2007

Comments

Sorry to hear of your loss - i accidentally found this page whilst googling my own name - were your son alive today he would be a year older than me - life seems so random sometimes when tragedies like this occur - i hope you find peace in your lives and this page is a beautiful tribute to your son - my thoughts are with u tonite - JIM


Signer_FullName: Tina Liu
Remote Name: 69.243.82.85
Date: 07/06/2007

Comments

Hello, i am sorry about your loss! Did the police catch the person who did it? I truly hope they did! Best regards.


Signer_FullName: Kathi Testa Smith
Remote Name: 207.200.116.71
Date: 05/03/2007

Comments

My heart, soul and prayers go out to you and your family and I know that your beautiful son resides about with my beloved daughter Jenny who was murdered on July 3, 1999. I read your moving Victim Impact Statement and I hope that the outcome of the justice system brought you some satisfaction, as best it can. I know only too well that there is no such thing as closure...a word that doesn't belong in the dictionary of a murder victim family. My prayers are with you...thank you for sharing your loving and wonderful son with me. God bless you all, Kathi


Signer_FullName: Kim
Remote Name: 24.205.149.19
Date: 04/24/2007

Comments

While searching for James Connor I came across this site (as many have done). I lost my father, brother and someone I truly loved. I wanted to tell you that I will be celebrating Jim's memory for you today in my thoughts and light memory candle for him and for your family. What a tragedy. I know what if feels like to move on and tuck memories in that place called the heart. May you and yours find some comfort.


Signer_FullName: Robert Meakin
Remote Name: 195.212.199.56
Date: 02/22/2007

Comments

To the Connor family, Hope all is getting better. Sorry about Doc. I have returned to the United Kingdom to live but even though a long way away and a long time ago Jim is still in my thoughts.


Signer_FullName: Jim's family
Remote Name: 152.163.101.14
Date: 01/10/2007

Comments

Eight years ago today Jim's remains were found - after 18 weeks of heartbreak and a missing son. The pain of losing our son does not got away. We recently lost his wonderful Therapy Dog - Doc, who has been our constant companion since 1998. We appreciate all the support of our family and friends. Without this we couldn't have survived.


Signer_FullName: Amy
Remote Name: 64.12.116.6
Date: 11/16/2006

Comments

I am so sorry for your loss. Hopefully you will find some peace if not now, soon.


Signer_FullName: Amy
Remote Name: 64.12.116.6
Date: 11/16/2006

Comments

I am so sorry for your loss. Hopefully you will find some peace if not now, soon.


Signer_FullName: Corinne
Remote Name: 82.38.177.85
Date: 09/18/2006

Comments

I stumbled across your site and can't express how deeply touched I am by it. I'm so very sorry for your loss. What a waste of a good man's life. May he rest in peace. Love to you and your family. Corinne xxx


Signer_FullName: James T O Connor
Remote Name: 84.203.58.65
Date: 09/13/2006

Comments

sorry for your loss x


Signer_FullName: Dave Sunshine
Remote Name: 69.37.241.11
Date: 03/25/2006

Comments

I'm so sorry for your loss, and thank you for your support of Sierra's Law. When I read your e mail I got up from the computer and walked into the living room where my 5 year old son is watching TV, locked in it's tractor beam and oblivious to the world. I put him in my lap, kissed his head and held his little hand in mine until he got annoyed. You truly have to relish every second you have with the one's you love. After the loss of my friend and stories like yours, I notice a lot more of what used to pass me by. God bless you and watch over you until you can be with your son again.


Signer_FullName: James Connor
Remote Name: 69.242.1.225
Date: 02/12/2006

Comments

We not only share the name, but I was born on the day of his murder. Kind of weird.


Signer_FullName: Jay Morris (jmorris95@cox.net)
Remote Name: 24.252.9.101
Date: 02/01/2006

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Signer_FullName: Dennis
Remote Name: 81.86.119.177
Date: 01/20/2006

Comments

I was searching the internet for information on my Uncle James Connor. James was deaf, he was killed by a motorcyclist whilst crossing the road, that lead me to your site, it touched something within me so I write. I also lost a family member close to me, my eldest sister Catherine, she was only 21 years old, stabbed repeatedly by her husband and died in hospital when I was 14 years. They say time is a great healer, but its not, memories fade, good times are more Reminiscent than bad, I think of my Catherine everyday. What would she have been like, how many kids would she have had, what would she be wearing, driving, who would her friends have been now, would she approve of my live, would she have loved my kids as much as I loved her. But time doesn't heal, it just nulls the pain. Your not alone, but hopefully someday, I will meet my Catherine again, I will see the clothes she wears, whom her friends are, and did she approve, and hopefully you will to. God bless you, Dennis, Whitehaven UK


Signer_FullName: helen
Remote Name: 205.188.116.195
Date: 01/16/2006

Comments

I am so sorry.


Signer_FullName: lou
Remote Name: 82.43.60.135
Date: 01/13/2006

Comments

i was very upset to read the story about Jim he seemed a great guy ,i do hope they get the scum soon, god bless you both


Signer_FullName:
Remote Name: 64.12.116.204
Date: 01/10/2006

Comments

7 years today that Jim's remains were discovered - after being missing for 18 weeks. He will never be forgotten. Doc


Signer_FullName: pam smith
Remote Name: 69.183.39.117
Date: 11/20/2005

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Signer_FullName: J
Remote Name: 69.182.31.208
Date: 11/10/2005

Comments

I was one of the jury members and have had nightmares since the trial. I am so sorry for your loss, what happened to your son should never have happened. I know no sentence will ever bring him back but I hope now you can rest easier. I don't know what exactly to say, just know he is in many of our thoughts every day.


Signer_FullName: nancy
Remote Name: 209.104.146.130
Date: 11/05/2005

Comments

So sorry. Pray for comfort. Pray for your son's soul that everything is intact. Pray for justice. Pray for the fight for good in the world. Please don't become/stay bitter. That way you are letting bad/evil win. I am praying right now for strength to come your way.


Signer_FullName: Karrie Kenyon
Remote Name: 205.188.116.7
Date: 10/04/2005

Comments

Aunt Connie and Uncle Don, My thoughts are with you. Please let me know if I can be of any assistance. Patricia sends her love to both of you. Love Always, Karrie


Signer_FullName: Robert Meakin
Remote Name: 160.33.66.118
Date: 09/23/2005

Comments

To the Connor family, Not a day goes by that I do not think of my old college mate Jimmy "the Riddler" Connor. I hold the Southern Connecticut State University memories and years after dear to my heart. I cannot believe 7 years have already gone by. I have a wooden statue of a sailor holding a mug of beer with a big grin on his face; Jim gave me this because he said it reminded him of me. Now it sits in my office and everyday that smiling sailor reminds me of Jim. He was a great friend and I miss him.


Signer_FullName: Jessica Sheldon-Tolbert
Remote Name: 209.247.222.45
Date: 08/31/2005

Comments

Dear Aunt Connie, and Uncle Don, I am Brian and Bobbi-jo's sister Jessica. I wanted to let you know how deeply sorry I am for your loss. I want you to know that I am thinking of you and praying for you. I am very sorry for all of the pain that you must be going through. My sister told me of this site, and I was present when she was reading your last e-mail, how strong you must be. I know God must be walking with you in your time of need. If I could I would send you a great big Hug and a kiss. Give doc a pat for me. If you ever need a shoulder to cry on, I will always be here for you. Love Always, Jessie


Signer_FullName:
Signer_Email:
Remote Name: 64.12.116.204
Date: 08/23/2005

Comments

Jim was taken from us 7 years ago today. Finally, last week - justice prevailed. A Groton. CT man was found guilty Thursday in the 1998 beating and killing of an Essex businessman and yacht captain but escaped a possible death sentence when a jury could not find him guilty of capital felony. A 12-member New London Superior Court jury found Jeffrey “Monk” Smith, 32, guilty of first-degree manslaughter, two counts of first-degree kidnapping, first-degree robbery and felony murder, meaning a death occurred during the course of a robbery and kidnapping. On all of the charges, Smith faces 150 years in prison. He will be sentenced Oct. 14. The trial began July 27 with jury deliberations starting last Friday. Abin Britton and Gregory Pierre, both of New London, also were charged in James Connor's death. They were both sentenced to 85 years in separate trials.


Signer_FullName: lori connor comen
Remote Name: 68.63.103.42
Date: 08/23/2005

Comments

7 years today- gone but not forgotten-what 3 murder trials can show you. Jim never had a chance. May they all rot in prison. Guilty as charged.


Signer_FullName: Bill
Remote Name: 65.172.155.12
Date: 08/23/2005

Comments

I am a local and followed the case of your son closely. Although it pleased me that this vermin who so brutally murdered your son were apprehended, it troubled me greatly reading of their lies to the court and complete lack of remorse for their vicious crime. I extend my deepest sympathy to you and your family on this tragic and senseless loss. I also hope deep down that those cowardly persons suffer each day for their crime. I'm only disheartened that it took something as awful as the death of your loved one to remove them from society. God bless you and yours and ease your sorrow and pain.


Signer_FullName: bunny lee
Signer_Email: bunnylee36@charter.net
Remote Name: 24.158.219.190
Date: 08/21/2005

Comments

why and who really did this


Signer_FullName: Susan Bloomfield
Remote Name: 66.214.18.168
Date: 07/13/2005

Comments

I read your letter to the judge and could feel the love you have for your son. I am so sorry that your son was taken away from you.


Signer_FullName: Fran Selvaggio

Remote Name:
209.139.87.77
Date:
05/16/2005

Comments

Just stumbled across your site. I enjoyed it, it's calming. So sorry for your loss. James was very handsome. -Fran


Signer_FullName: Jeanmarie Harvey
Remote Name: 69.177.17.238
Date: 04/13/2005

Comments

Happy 40th Birthday in heaven Jimmy. I hope you and Caribe are celebrating together!


Signer_FullName:
Remote Name: 152.163.100.204
Date: 04/12/2005

Comments

Tomorrow Jim would be celebrating his 40th birthday. We miss him terribly... Mom, Dad and Doc


Signer_FullName: Debbie Kenyon
Signer_Email: djkenyon@frontiernet.net
Remote Name: 208.186.52.236
Date: 03/19/2005

Comments

To my dear sister and brother-in-law, What a fitting and poignant testament to Jim's memory. As always, you (and Jim) are in our prayers. Thank goodness for those who watch over us. Debbie


Signer_FullName: Bobbi-Jo Sheldon
Signer_Email: bobbijosheldon@yahoo.com
Remote Name: 208.15.31.174
Date: 03/09/2005

Comments

Dear Uncle Don and Aunt Connie, Earlier this evening I was sitting with my mother, Jonie Sheldon Lasecki, talking about different things in life and she asked my if there would ever be a way to contact you. I told her I would try to Google you and I found this web site. For many years mother has shared your grief and I along with her find it hard to understand the terrible pain you must be going through. Please except our deepest sympathy and remember you are in our prayers.


Signer_FullName: didi
Signer_Email: diditrepan@sympatico.ca
Remote Name: 69.156.167.154
Date: 02/04/2005

Comments

very touched by your site and your efforts to perpetuate your son's presence on earth take care didi 02/04/05


Signer_FullName: mandy
Signer_Email: save14lou
Remote Name: 82.43.62.222
Date: 09/26/2004

Comments

what a waste of a young mans life, may god give you strength


Signer_FullName: jessica white
Signer_Email: Remote Name:
64.252.182.116Date:
09/07/2004

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Signer_FullName: JOHNNY M. WALKER
Signer_Email: walkerla70403@charter.net
Remote Name: 68.190.69.218
Date: 08/07/2004

Comments: Dear Conner Family, I stumbled across your site--read MOM"S statement to the court-- and am sitting here--a 50 y/o man, husband, father of a wonderful 16 y/o son--and I have tears running down my face. I offer you my humble condolences on the tragic and heartbreaking loss of your only son. I think of "What would I do?" if, God forbid some tragedy befell my son. I don't know if I could go on--I applaud your courage and strength. I am close friends of Sherie & George Walber--they too lost their son, Eric Walber to a barbaric and senseless murder. As usual, he was a great kid--honor student, all-state football player, and was working delivering pizzas when he was attacked, beaten, and run over with his own pickup by the four no-good, shiftless and worthless punks who jumped him. Amazingly, one of them played football with him and was afraid he would "finger" him for the robbery. Now he is facing lethal injection at Angola (Louisiana's state prison and not a good place to hang out)--by the time he has his date with the "needle" I am sure he will be glad to take it as an escape from that hell-on-earth. Eric's case was featured on "America's Most Wanted". John Walsh and crew are to be commended for the great service they provide to our nation. I know for a fact that their broadcast of Eric's murder and it's details brought 4 PUNKS to a timely justice. I will keep you, my friends the Walbers, & all of the families who have lost loved ones to senseless violence, in my daily Prayers to our Heavenly Father. Respectfully & Prayerfully, Johnny M. Walker


Signer_FullName:
bridgette
Signer_Email:
2lite4u@msn.com
Remote Name:
66.213.197.102
Date:
06/21/2004

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Signer_FullName:
James Patrick Connor
Signer_Email:
jp_connor@yahoo.com
Remote Name:
137.201.242.130
Date:
04/21/2004

Comments

I grieve for the loss of your son who I share a namesake. I was using Google to see if any of my information was present on the web and saw this site. I find it ironic that he was got his captain's license and that I was a former Marine. God bless, Jim


Signer_FullName: Travis (Alabama) Fortenberry
Signer_Email: realsouthernreb@aol.com
Remote Name: 208.60.230.132
Date: 02/21/2004

Comments

Be my voice is a poem wrote in memory of Paul and other people that has been murdered for no apparent reason. The reason I am writing this is to let you know the poem starts and ends. It starts with my heart is no longer pumping blood, and ends with whether he is put to death or spends his life in jail. I only wish I knew how to type it on the computer so it looked like a poem. If by chance you're going thru this site please take time to read the poem. Give it great thought - the same thing could happen to me, you or one of our loved ones. A friend in the south (Alabama). May god bless each one that reads this (and Paul's) story.


Signer_FullName:
stacy owens
Signer_Email: 
morman9@AOL.COM
Remote Name:
152.163.252.65
Date:
01/23/2004

Comments

i know that through faithful service and belief in the lord jesus christ we will all be returned to our loved one through sealing powers of the melchkezedek priesthood. I was lost and I found the truth and happiness christ promises all his faithful followers. we do what we can here and be perfected in christ. judgment day is coming and the power of god is more tormenting than the power of men. with true love for my brothers and sisters i leave this with you in the name of jesus christ Amen.


Signer_FullName:
Kristin Hall
Signer_Email:
Morghan@dreamscape.com
Remote Name:
209.217.192.157
Date:
01/03/2004

Comments

Jimmy- I miss you! Your cousin, Kristin


Signer_FullName:
patsy fortenberry
Signer_Email:
grand_amldy@yahoo.com
Remote Name:
64.12.96.9
Date:
12/23/2003

Comments

I am so sorry for your loss, may god be with your family and hope soon you will have some closure and justice for your son.


Signer_FullName: Travis (Alabama) Fortenberry

Signer_Email:
realsouthernreb@aol.com
Remote Name:
205.188.208.10
Date:
12/21/2003

Comments

Be my voice, in memory of James Patrick Connor. written by: Travis (Alabama) Fortenberry. My heart's no longer pumping blood - my lungs they do not breathe, My lips are cold and turned to blue my life has ceased to be. I cry for vengeance from the grave - I'm a victim of a crime, I no longer hear and speak, my eyes they now are blind. Society's got to be my voice and make the killer pay, Only then I'll rest in peace with restitution made. When the sentence is handed down justice will prevail, Whether he is put to death or spends his life in jail.

Ya'll have been thru something I pray to god I'll never experience. My wife and I have been blessed with four children between us plus two foster kids. Our prayers and thoughts are with ya'll. We hope that the killer is caught and brought to justice. It won't bring paul back but it'll bring ya'll some closure. You're friend in the south (Alabama).


Signer_FullName:
Donna
Signer_Email:
Remote Name:
64.172.62.201
Date:
10/27/2003

Comments

I am very sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you. I'm glad to have met you in the chat room at Groww.


Signer_FullName:
Deven
Signer_Email:
Dev313@hotmail.com
Remote Name:
68.63.146.58
Date:
07/19/2003

Comments

i miss you Uncle Jimmy. God bless


Signer_FullName:
steve
Signer_Email:
Remote Name:
68.63.146.58
Date:
07/07/2003

Comments


Signer_FullName:
lori comen
Signer_Email:
lac124911@hotmail
Remote Name:
68.63.146.58
Date:
07/06/2003

Comments

the years go by, but we never stop missing jimmy. life is not the same for our family, but we make a point to get the most out of each and every day.


Signer_FullName:
Holly Jean
Signer_Email:
lightlovr@aol.com
Remote Name:
152.163.188.5
Date:
04/13/2003

Comments

Honey, I DID NOT FORGET (you KNOW I didn't) I'm just pushing the envelope as always...I picked exactly thirteen gardenias from the entrance way and put them in the bedroom 1.) for how I miss you 2.) for how I miss you 3.) for how I miss you 4.) for how I miss you 5.) for how I miss you 6.) for how I miss you 7.) for how I miss you 8.) for how I miss you 9.) for how I miss you 10.) for how I miss you 11.) for how I miss you 12.) for how I miss you 13.) for how I miss you

(you get it, huh?) HAPPY 38!!! Birthdays are better in heaven.


Signer_FullName:
Signer_Email:
Remote Name:
152.163.188.5
Date:
04/10/2003

Comments

Jim would be 38 on Sunday. He is truly missed. Doc


Signer_FullName:
Susan
Signer_Email:
zippo513@charter.net
Remote Name:
68.114.87.45
Date:
03/12/2003

Comments

MAY GOD GIVE YOU PEACE SPIRITUALLY AND EMOTIONALLY. I CERTAINLY AS A PARENT WILL LEAVE A PRAYER FOR YOU AT THE CROSS.


Signer_FullName:
Val Morgan
Signer_Email:
vkbtm@aol.com
Remote Name:
12.215.181.106
Date:
03/09/2003

Comments

So sorry for your loss. God bless.


Signer_FullName:
crystal hawkins
Signer_Email:
crysthwk@aol.com
Remote Name:
64.12.103.38
Date:
02/07/2003

Comments

i am so sorry for your loss god bless you and your family.


Signer_FullName:
Signer_Email:
Remote Name:
205.241.222.190
Date:
09/17/2002

Comments

I too had an uncle murdered in a drive by shooting. His name was Jerry Lee Connor.


Signer_FullName:
Teresa Connor-Mosier
Signer_Email:
trixienoodle@hotmail.com
Remote Name:
205.241.222.190
Date:
09/17/2002

Comments


Signer_FullName:
Holly Paxton
Signer_Email:
lightlovr@aol.com, Hollyj@nursefinders.net
Remote Name:
152.163.197.178
Date:
08/22/2002

Comments

Excruciating four years without you, James. Way understated...


Signer_FullName:
Linda
Signer_Email:
gypsy2449@yahoo.com
Remote Name:
63.84.205.163
Date:
05/29/2002

Comments

I am so sorry for your loss. I too know, your pain so well after the murder of my only daughter Heather, 22, and the PR Govt stealing her 18 mos. old baby. I know, a double loss so well. I am so sorry for your pain/loss of your beautiful son.

May God, watch over you and keep you in his love. Linda/gypsy Heather's Mom Kiven's grandMom


Signer_FullName:
MARILYN & LARRY TARDUCCI
Signer_Email:
lawrence.tarducci@snet.net
Date:
02/24/2002

Comments

A CRIME UNWARRANTED. NOW JIM IS IN HEAVEN WATCHING US. GOD BLESS YOU JIM AND GOD BLESS YOUR FAMILY.


Signer_FullName:
Bob
Signer_Email:
withheld
Date:
01/15/2002

Comments

my heart to you. Strange that his murderers should bury him. I hope justice is served.


Signer_FullName:
Denny "Bama"
Signer_Email:
Bamafnatkaol.com
Date:
10/15/2001

Comments

**(( Doc ))** So sorry for all the family & friends, I was in the room when you told of the conviction, I pray for the other two to get the same on this earth, we too lost a loved one, our son to Murder & DUI on drugs, we can share the pain of ya'll losing such a wonderful young man, God Bless Ya'll , Mr. & Mrs Bama


Signer_FullName:
HAHostSherrie
Signer_Email:
tomsherrie@yahoo.com
Date:
10/15/2001

Comments

(((((((((((((Doc))))))))))))))) Thank you for sharing your son with us. You are in my prayers. Love HAHostSherrie


Signer_FullName:
Jenny
Signer_Email:
hewalker@sbcglobal.net
Date:
10/15/2001

Comments

Dear Doc what a fine looking man...so sorry to hear of his death.  Love you (((((((((Doc)))))))))) Jenny from Heavenly angels


Signer_FullName:
Karen L. McPike
Signer_Email:
MCPIKKA@dwd.state.wi.us
Date:
10/12/2001

Comments


Signer_FullName:
Kacey
Signer_Email:
Date:
10/11/2001

Comments

I am Very Sorry For your Loss!!!!!!!


Signer_FullName:
James Connor
Signer_Email:
jamesconnor@another.com
Date:
10/03/2001

Comments

Whilst searching for somebody with the same name as me. I came across this story. My heart goes out to this tragic loss. I am very sorry to hear of your loss.


Signer_FullName:
Chrissi
Signer_Email:
ChrissiHarp33@yahoo.com
Date:
09/27/2001

Comments

My thoughts and prayers go out to the victim and his family.


Signer_FullName:
Val Morgan
Signer_Email:
ValeriaMorgan@aol.com
Date:
09/12/2001

Comments

May God bless you and help you heal during your troubled times. My husband was beaten and shot and I give you my greatest sympathy. I cannot imagine the pain of loosing a child. We will remember you in prayer.


Signer_FullName:
Debbie Wiley
Signer_Email:
DWiley7346@aol.com
Date:
09/07/2001

Comments

I am so sorry for the loss of your son. I too know the pain of losing a son. My son, Phillip, was murdered on October 18, 1998 at the Hilton Hotel in Atlanta, Ga. The pain never goes away. Phillip's web page is http://phillip-dover.memorial-of-love.net. I pray you get justice. You are in my prayers.


Signer_FullName:
Donald's Mom
Signer_Email:
efarlough@earthlink.net
Date:
09/01/2001

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TO JAMES FAMILY , I'M SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS, MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY


Signer_FullName:
Judy Bennett
Signer_Email:
jben986602@aol.com
Date:
08/30/2001

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I am so sorry for your loss. may god give you the strength and comfort you need.


Signer_FullName:
Debbie Perkins
Signer_Email:
artie70@gateway.net
Date:
08/26/2001

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My deepest sympathy for the loss of your son....... I feel a deep sense of sadness just by looking at the photo, even though I did not know him. Have faith that he rests in the arm of Jesus, and is waiting for you now.....


Signer_FullName:
Jack Bornhoeft
Signer_Email:
jhb1957@monmouth.com
Date:
08/15/2001

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I'm truly sorry at the loss of your son. I fell upon this site because I felt outrage over the pleas to spare convicted murderer Beazley from the death penalty scheduled for today and wanted simply to see what the internet had to offer regarding information concerning his fate. Anyway, I don't mean to bring up other horror stories...KNOW THAT YOUR SON IS NOW RESTING IN PEACE WITH THE LORD.

God Bless your Family,

Jack


Signer_FullName:
jb
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Date:
07/31/2001

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i am so sorry for your loss. may god bless you.


Signer_FullName:
Teresa
Signer_Email:
catontv@aol.com
Date:
07/04/2001

Comments

I am truly sorry for lost. I lost my stepbrother. He was murdered, I was over seas when it happened and sometimes its still hard to believe. And recently my husband was killed by a drunk driver.

My heart goes out to you and my prayers

Teresa Pitts


Signer_FullName:
Noel McNamara
Signer_Email:
Date:
07/02/2001

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we are from the Crime Victims Support Association 511 Burwood Highway Wantirna South 3152 Victoria Australia Telephone(03)9226 2100 OR Mobile 0419 897 615 our thoughts are with you Noel


Signer_FullName:
debbie byrd
Signer_Email:
rava4by4@aol.com
Date:
07/01/2001

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my heart goes out to you and your family, as i have a son about the same age. i pray to god every night to watch over my kids and take care of them. someday we'll all be together. deb


Signer_FullName:
Marie Hansen
Signer_Email:
marymlinkous@hotmail.com
Date:
07/01/2001

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I saw your sons picture and read the story i am still crying my heart breaks for you and your family and i will pray for you. I hope who ever did this to your son gets what they deserve. Marie


Signer_FullName:
Ellen May
Signer_Email:
flip1@lswinc.com
Date:
06/29/2001

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Your son was very handsome. My thoughts and prayers are with you, as I know how it feels to lose someone to murder. My aunt was brutally killed 21 years ago and we are still fighting for justice. May God bless you and bring you the peace that only comes from his hands.


Signer_FullName:
niki
Signer_Email:
niki.betteridge@ntlworld
Date:
06/24/2001

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I can never know how your loss feels but please accept my apologies and i feel for you, i know this will not help you but he is with you forever


Signer_FullName:
Rachel
Signer_Email:
sassy18@hotmail.com
Date:
06/22/2001

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I'm sorry about your loss. I know how it feels to lose someone through murder. I'm so sorry.


Signer_FullName:
David Chalcraft
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Date:
06/18/2001

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Signer_FullName:
Amanda Lee
Signer_Email:
TwinAuntII
Date:
06/02/2001

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I am so sorry for you and I wish nothing but the best. I am in high school and I learning more about these cases. I cant possibly understand your pain because I have never lost someone before but I do know that God will bless you and your entire family. Take care and god bless. you will make it. keep surviving.


Signer_FullName:
Amanda Lee
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Date:
06/02/2001

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Signer_FullName:
kimberly ray
Signer_Email:
raystab58@aol.com
Date:
05/26/2001

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Has this murder been solved? If not, call Montel so Sylvia can help you...I really believe she is truly a Christian with a gift.


Signer_FullName:
Leisha Dishmon
Signer_Email:
sawyerj006@hawaii.rr.com
Date:
05/25/2001

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I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my 27 year old sister on April 2, 2000 in West Virginia. She was beat to death and then burned in a home a mile from my parents home. She was 5 months pregnant at the time. So, I do know your pain! It is unbelievable how cruel people can be. My heart is with you.

My sister's murderer spent the last year on house arrest two miles from my family. It never ends does it.

Always, Siblings in Sorrow Leisha Dishmon


Signer_FullName:
Jenean Adams
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Date:
05/24/2001

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I'm deeply saddened by the loss of your son James. It is so sad to see that there are such cruel and violent people in this world, that care about nothing more than material possessions. Hopefully with the grace of God the person/people that murdered your son will come to realize what a horrific thing that they have done. You are in my prayers always, God bless you.


Signer_FullName:
Darlene boutilier
Signer_Email:
darleneboutilier@hotmail.com
Date:
05/19/2001

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I'm so sorry to have read your sons end, I'm also battling the loss of my beloved sister she was murdered by someone we all trust... a doctor. morphine took her young life her age was 36,she was a beautiful person, oh how i miss her. I go though pain every single day without her in my life. I truly know how you feel I'm so sorry.


Signer_FullName:
Judi Walker
Signer_Email:
AngelShanesMom@aol.com
Date:
05/16/2001

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I am so sorry for the loss of you son James. I know his loss has a void in your lives that nothing can ever fill. I will never understand how someone can take the life of another. I know and share your pain, my son was murdered too. You are in my thoughts and prayers.


Signer_FullName:
Kate Malone
Signer_Email:
sweetpeas88@hotmail.com
Date:
05/12/2001

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I am so very sorry for your loss and I hope it's a small consolation to know that many strangers hold you in their thoughts and prayers. I'm new to the web, links, etc. so if I missed it I'm sorry, but has the murderer been caught? The word "closure" seems so trite, but having some sort of justice for such a horrible crime is so important. Again, you are remembered in my prayers and please give Doc a "kiss & cuddle" from me! With Love, Katie


Signer_FullName:
kate
Signer_Email:
aussie1956@hotmail.com
Date:
04/27/2001

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Just writing to say what a wonderful site you have made for Jim. He is a very good looking young man and did not deserve what has happened to him. It has been a privilege visiting Jim site you can feel the love all around I must say this is probably the 1st time in this site that I have not cried constantly. I am an Australian and started web surfing death row about 4 weeks ago & found this site, It has followed me around all that period of time. I feel a little foolish that when I 1st started reading about death row I did feel sorry for these people but not anymore. These people deserve what they get they mostly cry hard done by & are innocent, They have had years to live and correspond with loved ones their loved ones are able to be with them in their last moments, What did the victims & their families get nothing no last moments together, In some cases not knowing their loved ones last resting places these are all privileges the condemned family have, Some victims murdered for a couple of dollars going to the shops what is humanity coming to. I did not believe in the death penalty prior to reading these sites. these people do not deserve sympathy from anybody this should be reserved for the victims & their families. I am terrified for my own family children & grandchildren not knowing what is around the corner. We do not have the death penalty in Australia anymore but I think in some cases it should be reintroduced for murder. Our crimes here seem to be on the increase. Young people murdering young people for no apparent reason, It seems to me that we live in a crazy society these people who commit these terrible crime for no reason should but put down like the animals that they are, What do they bring to society nothing only fear. Sorry to get on my soap box I feel I have desecrated Jim's site. I wish you all well & believe that Jim is smiling down on you all


Signer_FullName:
Michael Chen
Signer_Email:
wennie_lu1983@yahoo.com
Date:
04/26/2001

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we're doing our civic project on whether for or against the death penalty, please e-mail me and talk about your personal experience and opinions. your thoughts will be heard. Thank you Sincerely yours

Michael chen


Signer_FullName:
Marsha Craven
Signer_Email:
nannytms2@aol.com
Date:
04/22/2001

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I am sorry for the loss of your beautiful son. I lost my 18 yrs old son John on April 16, 1991. Just want to let you know that you will be in my thought and prayers. Lots of Love Marsha


Signer_FullName:
SHANI DIMMITT
Signer_Email:
Sdimmitt@bakerinsuranceagency.com
Date:
04/17/2001

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My heart goes out to your family. My children's father was 34 and on a Fishing/Camping trip at Timothy Lake, OR. May 29, 1998. His car was found burnt over an embankment. His remains were found in a fire pit approx 5 miles away over a year later. Through DNA testing the authorities finally ID'd my best friend & Father of my children. It has been nearly 3 years and we have nothing.. The police are not real helpful.... Anyway I would like to talk to you as this is all new to me... I know I have to get started and find answers some how - some way. Always, Shani


Signer_FullName:
Karrie Kenyon
Signer_Email:
karriealetha@aol.com
Date:
04/15/2001

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Aunt Kathy and Uncle Jack
Signer_Email:
KBlair6038
Date:
04/13/2001

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Happy Birthday Jim. We think of you often. We know you are ok up there. We love you.


Signer_FullName:
Aunt Kathy and Uncle Jack
Signer_Email:
KBlair6038
Date:
04/13/2001

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Happy Birthday Jim. We think of you often. We know you are ok up there. We love you.


Signer_FullName:
Auntie Kathy and Uncle Jack
Signer_Email:
KBlair6038@aol.com
Date:
04/13/2001

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Happy Birthday Jim. We think of you so often and smile at things you said and did. Take care of all our family up there. You will always be in our thoughts. We love you.


Signer_FullName:
Gail Connor Dingman
Signer_Email:
gcdingman@aol.com
Date:
04/13/2001

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Happy Birthday Jimmy.

Wow, this is certainly a powerful web page. Now that I have finally stopped crying and have tucked my heart back in place, let me just say, that you are in my thoughts at the very best of times (even without your web page). You are there when I am peaceful, when I am happy, when I am creative, and when I am cautious and afraid.

Our lives have moved on, but we are bringing you with us . . . for generations to come. But, I'm sure you already know that.


Signer_FullName:
Kristin Connor Hall
Signer_Email:
Morghan@dreamscape.com
Date:
04/13/2001

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Jimmy was the greatest dancer and the most fun in all the world. He was the cousin I always got in trouble with and the one who could make me laugh until my sides hurt!! He was Paul Lynne and Al Jolson singing "Mammy" in the spotlight of the boat going down the Barge Canal. He believed in Jack Flappy as much as I did. I miss him with all of my heart and he's in my thoughts every day. I know he's near when I hear Sarah Mclaclan's "Angel" I sometimes see his boyish grin when my two year old, Ethan looks at me. My love to the Connor family, my family. I love you and miss you all...Kristin


Signer_FullName:
Lori Comen
Signer_Email:
NOLIFT911@AOL.COM
Date:
04/13/2001

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We miss Jim. Our family goes to The Rain Forest Cafe to Remember the good times Jim had there. We will be going tonight.


Signer_FullName:
Mom and Dad 
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Date:
04/13/2001

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Happy birthday in heaven Jim...we all miss you. Doc sends his love.


Signer_FullName:
Jeanmarie Harvey
Signer_Email:
jmharvey@town.old-saybrook.ct.us
Date:
04/13/2001

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Happy Birthday in Heaven Jimmy!


Signer_FullName:
Gail Dingman
Signer_Email:
gcdingman@aol.com
Date:
04/12/2001

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Signer_FullName:
Gail
Signer_Email:
gcdingman@aol.com
Date:
04/12/2001

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Signer_FullName:
Vivian
Signer_Email:
angelsfour21@cs.com
Date:
04/12/2001

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I am so sorry for the lose of your son. He was a very handsome man. I know your pain I lost my son he was 17 and was hit by a car Aug.24,1996. I will keep you and your family in my prays and my God Comfort you all. God Bless Justin's mom Viv http://home.talkcity.com/memoryln/angelsfour/


Signer_FullName:
kim douglas
Signer_Email:
kimkenyondouglas@hotmail.com
Date:
04/10/2001

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Signer_FullName:
Lisa Wier
Signer_Email:
mourningli@aol.com
Date:
04/08/2001

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What a strikingly handsome man your Jim was. I am so sorry that you have to endure the pain of losing a child-my 24 yr old son James died July 9, 1998 so I know how strong your grief is. Your love for your son is felt on your wonderful tribute to him. May God give you comfort in the years ahead.


Signer_FullName:
Tucker Mikell
Signer_Email:
TuckerM55@aol.com
Date:
04/08/2001

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I saw your web page with grow. I am so sorry for your loss and it had to be so hard waiting those six months to really know what happened. I lost my son, Trevor in a car accident 11/26/96 age 17. I feel your pain and sorrow. One day at a time and we will be with our children again. Hugs and Love, Tucker http://www.trevorspeed.com


Signer_FullName:
CATHY GIBBONS
Signer_Email:
gibbons78@optushome.com.au
Date:
04/08/2001

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2nd comment

What i forgot to tell u ,we have two dogs that where Christians one he showed and we finished his title for him he is now Australian champion (American Staffordshire Terriers) definitely what has kept us going real therapy i agree .look forward to your email reply would be nice. Take Care


Signer_FullName:
Cathy gibbons
Signer_Email:
gibbons78@optushome.com.au
Date:
04/08/2001

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HOW I FEEL FOR U WE LOST OUR ONLY CHILD SON ,CHRISTIAN 2YRS AGO ON 26TH APRIL HE WAS BORN 26/4/1979 YES DIED IN HOSPITAL ON HIS 20TH BIRTHDAY. ATTEMPTED SUICIDE, REVIVED AND WAS ON LIFE SUPPORT FOR 13 DAYS BEFORE LEAVING US ON HIS 20TH BIRTHDAY. GUESS WE ARE LUCKY IN WAYS TO HAVE ONLY ONE DAY TO COPE WITH EACH YEAR. THE FIRST ANNIV BEING HIS 21ST WENT QUIET WELL BUT NOT SURE WHAT WE ARE GOING TO DO THIS TIME. KNOW ALL HIS FRIEND WILL WANT TO DO SOMETHING AGAIN AS THEY STILL VISIT WHICH IS GREAT. YES WE MISS OUR LOVED ONES EVERY DAY EVERY MINUTE BUT WITH THE HELP OF MED I AM NOW BACK AT WORK DOING RECEPT CLERICAL JUST 4 DAYS 9-3PM NO FRIDAYS AND LOVE IT. SECOND XMAS WAS WORSE THAN FIRST SO HOPE SECOND BIRTHDAY/ANNIV WILL BE NOT SO BAD. NICE TO CHAT U TAKE CARE BYE CARE((((((((((()))))))))))GROWW IS THE BEST THING I FOUND ABOUT 3MTHS AGO. I STILL GO TO A PRIVATE COUNSELOR AND HAVE GREAT HUBBY AND FAMILY AND FRIENDS KNOW I'M LUCKY AS SOME PEOPLE HAVE NO ONE TO TALK WITH .BYE


Signer_FullName:
Paul
Signer_Email:
mcc@up-link.net
Date:
04/07/2001

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My heart and prayers are with you. I know there is nothing I can say that can ease the pain but my thoughts are with you. God bless, Paul.


Signer_FullName:
Kent and Rachael Blair
Signer_Email:
boat@rochester.rr.com
Date:
04/06/2001

Comments

Jimmy was a great cousin. I have always lived in New York, so because of distance I never got to see him that much. I always looked up to him. I remember stories I heard from him or about him and I thought to myself, "he's pretty cool". There is not much he hasn't done or seen. I have become much closer to Jimmy's mom and dad over the past few years. I have learned so many things about him that I never knew growing up. I see Jimmy today in my eye's as a hero. Every dream he had or idea he thought, he carried out. He lived his life to it's fullest. I am so glad I got to know him better over these years.


Signer_FullName:
Shelley Lauzon
Signer_Email:
shelleyandclaude@sympatico.ca
Date:
04/04/2001

Comments

So very sorry for your loss. May James celebrate his birthday in heaven with the angels this April 13.


Signer_FullName:
Jackie Miller
Signer_Email:
Paul9296@aol.com
Date:
04/04/2001

Comments

Aunt Connie, Uncle Don and Doc, This is a very wonderful memory of Jimmy. I will always remember the endless nights of monopoly. He was a great cousin! All our love goes out to you! 8-)


Signer_FullName:
Jeanmarie Harvey
Signer_Email:
jharvey@town.old-saybrook.ct.us
Date:
04/03/2001

Comments

Jimmy was my very first love and he will be in my heart for always. It brings such sadness knowing he is gone. He will never be forgotten. He was my "Dred Pirate Jimmy" and he is remembered with smiles and love.


Signer_FullName:
Brandy
Signer_Email:
brandyjo28@hotmail.com
Date:
04/01/2001

Comments

im so very sorry for your loss. it makes me cry and feel so very sad for the horror you must have had to face. just know that your son is with the lord now and he's watching over you and your family. one day you shall meet again.


Signer_FullName:
Tomme
Signer_Email:
tomme@morganherring.com
Date:
03/30/2001

Comments

I am very sorry for your loss.

I was just browsing the internet when I came upon your tragic story and I just felt like letting you know that there are people out there, such as I, that are thinking and praying for you.

I hope that "Doc" is doing well; give him a little pat for me.


Signer_FullName:
Holly J. Paxton
Signer_Email:
JollyH34@aol.com
Date:
03/26/2001

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He was always proud of me. Now he's finally got a reason. :) "Oh, ye of little faith..." Jim can make a star shoot right across the sky on command.

 

 


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